Selamat Hari Raya Maaz Zahir & Batin ! Hari raya tahun ni Anon sempat beraya kat kampong 4 hari 3 malam. Duit raya? Ada ke orang nak bagik kalau gi beraya bawak handbag macam Anon?
Tahun ni raya agak meriah kat kampong sebab Mak Usu beraya dgn ktorang. Sebenarnya Mak usu dijaga dan dipelihara oleh Yuyud (Moyang Anon) sejak dia baby lagi. Jadik ktorang tak pernah beraya sama-sama dgn dia. Tapi sejak Yuyud meninggal, Mak Usu dah pulang ke pangkuan family dia yg sebenar. Agak terharu di sini, sbb Mak Usu masih ingatkan family kami. Terima kasih Mak Su.
Cerita pasal Mak Usu, sumpah! Dia sangat kelakar, lawak giler, ada je celoteh dia yang buat ktorang ketawa sampai kuar air mata. Setiap kata-kata yg dia kuarkan, ada je yang bikin orang nak pecah perut.
Walaupun Mak Su selalu main-main, tapi ada satu hari ni Mak Su sangat serius. Masa tu cuma ada Anon n Mak Usu je dalam bilik. Mak Su nasihatkan Anon macam2 dari segi kehidupan, percintaan n macam2 la. Sampaikan Anon meleleh air mata. Mak Usu kata, dia nasihat mcm tu sebab dia tak nak tengok anak sedara dia rosak dan lalai dalam kehidupan. Terima Kasih Mak Usu. Anon akan ingat nasihat Mak Usu tu sampai bila-bila.. Sayang Mak Usu..
'Sometimes talking can bring on the tears, and tears say what you can't'
Sunday, 4 September 2011
Thursday, 18 August 2011
Menses at time of Laylatul Qadr
The woman in her menses in her last ten days of Ramadhaan is still beneficial for her to get up in the last third of the night to make du’a as she cannot make salaah, of course . It is beneficial to make du’a in the third of the night and this is open for the one who is in a state of ritual purity or ritual impurity.
So there is nothing wrong with that. And the woman in menses also could recite Qur’an from her memory and could make remembrances. All of that. And we can refer you to the book, Natural Blood of Woman by our Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen. Check this book insha Allah.
If a sister on her menses during the last ten nights, is she allowed to do prayer on these nights?
No. She can do anything except the prayers and fasting. She can invoke Allah (subhaanahu wa ta’aala). She can invoke Allah with this du’a. She can give charity. She can do all good actions of worship except for praying and fasting. Is this clear insha Allah sister? And by the way, a comment on this answer, for all the sisters: a woman who gets her menses during this time - this is a matter prescribed by Allah.
They should not feel in anyway, saddened at all. Why should they feel sad? Even a little bit, when Allah (subhaanahu wa ta’aala) prescribed this matter upon them? This is a very important matter. They shouldn’t have any kind of objection what so ever. They are not going to be deprived of anything that Allah (subhaanahu wa ta’aala) bestowed of his favors because of this. He is the one who commanded her to refrain from prayers. He is the one who commanded her to refrain from fasting. Mercy upon her. I hope that this is insha Allah, ya’ni, met with good understanding.
Because she cannot do the prayers on these nights due to the menses, doesn’t that mean she misses out on the rewards of praying the night of Qadr?
The answer is that, she cannot due to a legal permit. So she does the acts of worship permitted for her. She may recite Qur’an from memory. She may invoke Allah on these nights, anticipating these nights. She may give charity. She does what she is permitted to do. And that is why our Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah) mentioned that the matter is not limited to the establishment of prayers. But rather to all of the actions. To all of the worship. So that is the critical difference. Because we know that in some nights Prophet Muhammad (salallahu ‘alaiyhi wasallam) did not establish the prayers all night
So the sisters who have their natural blood on these days, shouldn’t give up.
Do acts of worship that are permitted.
Give charity.
Give good word.
Anticipating the reward from Allah. Making du’a. Making remembrances. Alhamdulillah.
So there is nothing wrong with that. And the woman in menses also could recite Qur’an from her memory and could make remembrances. All of that. And we can refer you to the book, Natural Blood of Woman by our Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen. Check this book insha Allah.
If a sister on her menses during the last ten nights, is she allowed to do prayer on these nights?
No. She can do anything except the prayers and fasting. She can invoke Allah (subhaanahu wa ta’aala). She can invoke Allah with this du’a. She can give charity. She can do all good actions of worship except for praying and fasting. Is this clear insha Allah sister? And by the way, a comment on this answer, for all the sisters: a woman who gets her menses during this time - this is a matter prescribed by Allah.
They should not feel in anyway, saddened at all. Why should they feel sad? Even a little bit, when Allah (subhaanahu wa ta’aala) prescribed this matter upon them? This is a very important matter. They shouldn’t have any kind of objection what so ever. They are not going to be deprived of anything that Allah (subhaanahu wa ta’aala) bestowed of his favors because of this. He is the one who commanded her to refrain from prayers. He is the one who commanded her to refrain from fasting. Mercy upon her. I hope that this is insha Allah, ya’ni, met with good understanding.
Because she cannot do the prayers on these nights due to the menses, doesn’t that mean she misses out on the rewards of praying the night of Qadr?
The answer is that, she cannot due to a legal permit. So she does the acts of worship permitted for her. She may recite Qur’an from memory. She may invoke Allah on these nights, anticipating these nights. She may give charity. She does what she is permitted to do. And that is why our Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah) mentioned that the matter is not limited to the establishment of prayers. But rather to all of the actions. To all of the worship. So that is the critical difference. Because we know that in some nights Prophet Muhammad (salallahu ‘alaiyhi wasallam) did not establish the prayers all night
So the sisters who have their natural blood on these days, shouldn’t give up.
Do acts of worship that are permitted.
Give charity.
Give good word.
Anticipating the reward from Allah. Making du’a. Making remembrances. Alhamdulillah.
Sunday, 14 August 2011
Ben ajak teka lagi
''Bila hati sudah cinta Allah, kita akan menjadi lebih cinta kepada orang lain. Dan bila kita sudah menjadi cinta kepada orang lain, orang lain pun akan menjadi cinta kepada kita''
Abg Ben, Anon rasa jawapan dia adalah... JENG JENG JENG....
SATU RASA DUA HATI
p/s: betul ke tidak betul ke tidak?
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